Friday, March 22, 2019

Are You Stuck and Just Can't Figure Out How to Change It?

Know exactly how far you have left to go.  Dream Sculpting System Review  Just like we meet with our players to access how they're progressing, we should do the same things with ourselves. With our professional and our personal goals. How would the fiveyearsago you feel about where you are in life Are you getting closer to those goals you had five years ago Have you moved on to new goals Do you have a plan in place to accomplish your goals Be a realistic optimist. The first team I coached was not super skilled. So when one of their goals was to win conference in a very tough conference!, I had to ask them how they were going to go about accomplishing that task. Because they didn't have a very good answer, we reworded that goal. As coaches, we've got to be just as realistic with our goals. If you're in the first year of coaching, you might not want to send in your resume to be the national team head coach.

 Focus on getting better, rather than being good. To me, success is defined by getting better each day. "Good" is too hard to define. "Better" is easy to define and hard to accomplish. "Good" has an end point, whereas "better" is constantly morphing and changing. "Good" looks to the past while "better" looks to the future. "Good" says that there's only one conclusion, "better" understands that we need to be flexible in order to accomplish our goals.Have grit. The author says it best in the article: "Effort, planning, persistence, and good strategies are what it really takes to succeed." It's not who you know though that's helpful or some innate skill that you have that'd also be helpful... it's your ability and willingness to work hard.

 Build your willpower muscle. I have this idea in my head that everyone wants to hear my opinion, but for whatever reason, that turns out to not be true. So when the desire to give unsolicited advice comes upon me, I've learned to zip my lips. It hasn't been easy and it's a skill that I've had to practice in other areas of my life so that I can maintain positive relationships in my life. What are some of my selfcontrol "practices": developing a workout plan and sticking to it, cutting out sweets VERY hard for me, or training for a half marathon. Just like we ask our teams to sacrifice now for something great that will hopefully happen in the future, we've got to do this as well.

With our crazy hours in the coaching field, the line between our personal goals and professional goals sometimes gets fuzzy. I believe as long as we're pushing forward on each front, we're putting ourselves in a good place to be successful.Many people associate the word 'Intuition' with making Predictions and dealing with personal life issues  understanding relationships, spirituality; sometimes the word 'psychic' is also confused with a person who is an Intuitive. There is often a woowoo type ring to it. When the truth is far from it; Intuition is nothing else but a gut feeling, an instinct about something and contrary to common belief that only few have it, we all are gifted with it. Also this sense goes beyond being the tool of accessing the future and is not limited to personal and spiritual matters alone; Intuition can be applied to business matters as well.



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